I know that's not a photo of Tiger's wife, nor did she bust the windows out his car with a baseball bat (it was a golf club--same difference!), but 'Before He Cheats' instantly popped into my head when I read of the alleged domestic altercation between the golf champ and his wife. Louisville Slugger aside, this photo is so fitting for this bizarre story.

The original story read something like Tiger crashing his car, hitting a fire hydrant and a tree at two in the morning. His wife, Elin Nordegren, comes to his rescue, nine iron in hand, smashing the rear windows. Tiger's face is cut up and he's in and out of consciousness by the time the authorities arrive. Since the incident, this story has been spun in so many ways, by Tiger's camp and the public. It's being said that Tiger had been stepping out on his wife (and mother of his two young children) and she was not having that. She basically let him know what was what.

Now we should all know that domestic violence, whether it be from the hand of a man or woman, is just wrong. But I'm not here to discuss all that. I'll leave that to those who are on Team Elin, but ripped Rihanna a new one during Chrihanna Gate of 2009.

I just want someone to help me understand: Why do people cheat? Seriously, WHY? Do you see how messy your situation can get if The Scorned catches wind of your late night creeping? I've never cheated nor have I ever been cheated on (to my knowledge), so I don't totally follow why someone (high profile or not) would risk tarnishing their image on a side piece, usually a person they don't even care that much for in the first place.

Furthermore, is loyalty and fidelity too much to ask for in a relationship? Even if the union had dwindled over time, why not have enough respect for yourself and the other person by calling it quits before you start up with someone else? Selfishness is what it is. For Tiger, it would be bad for his image and his wallet. But if it comes out that he really did cheat on his wife, his image and wallet (possible divorce costs, spousal/child support, loss of endorsement deals, etc.) will be impacted, anyway.

Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

I haven't listened to much Alicia Keys music lately (there's just something about allegedly cavorting with a married man and promoting female empowerment simultaneously that just cancels out any credibility that you may have had, thus causing me to hit 'next' whenever a song of yours comes up on my iTunes) but I stumbled upon this gem of a remix (sans Jay-Z) and I just had to share:

I'm rather geocentric when it comes to all things New York, and even though I've lived here all of my life, I actually felt a little rush as Alicia belted out these lyrics. How about you?

At this point, I've pretty much given up hope that The Game will be revived. Since it's cancellation last May, different stories have circulated among fans (including the show's cast and crew) about the show being picked up by it's original network. For a minute, we even thought that BET (where you can catch the show's re-runs daily) was trying to take the reigns, but nothing solid has come from them either. Since there has been no official statement regarding the return of Melanie, Derwin, and Co. I think it's safe to say The Game is not coming back. It sure was fun while it lasted.

Mo'Nique recently sat down with the entire cast on her late night talk show and they talked about their time on the show, but there was no mention of it's possible revival. Check it.

Part One & Part Three
EDITED TO ADD: I just peeped the BET blog post regarding the cast's reunion on Mo'Nique's show and there are over 1,300 comments on that post alone. Wow. Earth to BET! The show has a major following. Get the ball rolling already!

"...I want to be as beautiful as I can be, to myself first, and to anybody else who has enough sense to see me."

Your favorite poet's favorite poet (and all around Superwoman) was among the honored at last night's Women of the Year 2009 event, hosted by Glamour magazine. The event was held at NYC's Carnegie Hall. Dr. Maya Angelou uttered those great words during her acceptance speech for the Lifetime Achievement award that she received. Other honorees included First Lady Michelle Obama, tennis sensation Serena Williams, American Foreign Policy Advisor Susan Rice...and Rihanna--just to name a few.
I love a good quote. Sometimes those two or three sentences are all you need to get you going and to keep you going. 'What She Said' is a new feature of SGHI, where I will share with you inspiring, thought provoking, and downright brazen quotes from women that we pretty much co-sign on. If you know of some great quotes that you'd like to share, feel free to drop me a line. I love hearing from readers. 'Til next time...
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"I want a boyfriend," I jokingly told my sister as we both stared into the mirror of our bathroom. It's where we congregate every night to chat about the day's events, as we wrap our hair and get ready for bed.

"They're all taken by now. You should've got yourself one back in August like everyone else!"

"Like a North Face snorkel you buy long before winter comes?" The sarcasm was definitely in my voice.

What my sister has touched on is what many refer to as the Winter Boo (pause for reaction). A Winter Boo is a person obtained for the sole purpose of keeping you company (personal interpretations may vary) during the long, cold Winter months. Winter Boos are typically acquired months in advance, during a period conversationally known as "cuffing season" (second pause).

I guess while I was busy trying to keep from catching a heat stroke this past summer, girls and guys alike were hitting the streets in hopes of finding someone to curl up with once snow hits the ground.

Before I get into why I refuse to subscribe to this silly phenomenon, let me just say that cuffing season reminds me of shopping. Yes, shopping.

Stay with me.

Any true consumer knows that in order to get the best deals, one must shop out of season. So while your girlfriend struggles this December to let go of the three bills she’s about to drop for that new North Face snorkel (NYC folks know what I’m talking about), you’re securing the zipper on yours—the one you snagged for half the price back in July. Who comes out on top with this one?

Like shopping for winter gear in December, the chances of you snagging a good deal (a.k.a. a decent person to cuddle up with) gets slimmer and slimmer as the days get colder. This is when people become desperate and will take what they can get. No thank you!

I can totally understand why people feel the need partner up during this time. In the coming weeks, the temperature is going to drop something fierce and what better way to keep warm than with someone six-foot (this one's for the ladies), big arms, and a DVD collection that is as extensive as yours? Exactly.

Personally, I cannot and will not subscribe to anything remotely related WBs/cuffing season. For starters, I hate the term “cuffing”. It likens getting together with someone to a prison sentence (handcuffs—get it?). Nothing about a relationship, long-term or short, should be compared to a jail term. Establishing a relationship is a voluntary act—no one is forcing you to be with him or her, so ease up on the prison-like words. Furthermore, it doesn’t sit well with me that someone would only be into me so that they don’t feel cold and lonely for the next three months. What happens when Spring rolls around? We part ways and vow never to speak of the past several weeks? What do I look like to you? Boy, bye. You need not apply.

Your turn: What’s your take on cuffing season and winter boos? Did you snag yours already? Are you resisting like me? What is the proper protocol one must follow when taking on a winter boo? Have you done any good pre-winter shopping yet? Let me know!